BBRoundtable

Having some degree of outlet to get some of the pinned up aggression and pain helps
significantly and is MUCH less expensive than psychiatric evaluations and their th-
erapeutic sessions (laughs). I'm sorry to hear that your wife hasn't been the sa-
me since losing her job. It must have been a lot for her to deal with, espec-
ially if she's had the job for so long. My g/f has been the same after losi-
ng hers and has been more negative about things too. But recently, i-
t seems as though she's trying to get out of such ways of thinking a-
nd I hope that she can take her health seriously. I agree that so-
metimes getting out can help. It's kind of like a relief for you
and her as well. What I'm learning is that when both peop-
le in a relationship are able to freely express themselv-
es, it helps to secure their bond and further develop-
e the trust they both share. Easier said than done
though if for instance your partner enjoys gett-
ing into bar fights for fun (laughs). My g/f en-
joy listening to music LOUD! It relaxes her
and helps her to feel free, but the pro-
blem is that I enjoy serenity and qui-
et locations so I'm hoping that we
can both find a mid-point. I'm s-
orry to learn of the medical
mix-up for your friend's w-
ife. I'm hoping that her
singing voice returns
when she recover-
s. Hopefully he-
r vocal tone
will be th-
e same
too,
becaus-
e I've heard
of situations wh-
ere after surgery, a
persons singing voice is
of a different range or oct-
ave. But sometimes, it works o-
ut for the better. Here's hoping tha-
t her voice remains the same. I've never
been to a Chick-Fil-A restaurant at all and a-
fter hearing of your experience, I'm don't think
I'm ready to take a chance of visiting one, even if i-
t's at an entirely different location (laughs). At least y-
ou now know one restaurant chain that you won't be retur-
ning to any time soon (laughs). Getting back to your friends wi-
fe, it would be amazing if she can sing and drum! Does her singing
style sound well with your band playing at all? I mean, have you all tr-
ies this yet? By the way... feel free to PM those jokes to me if you like, ok?

Shawn wrote:

Diabolique wrote:Sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time, Shawn!
What happened that you are now forced to move out of your current place?
That sucks, especially since you seemed to like your new location. Hang in there.

They don't want to fix anything here.We had some major water damage and the basement is leaking really bad.Some led lights flicker now and I have had to shut power off to one room because the lights were buzzing. When it rains,water gets in under the stairs and sits and stinks unless we clean it up and also leaks within a few inches of the fuse box. We complained about all the work needing done and they decided they were not going to renew our lease.How nice of them.Maybe I should of gotten renters insurance and let the place burn.
I have put a deposit on a new place but having a hard time getting the first months rent and pet deposit so IDK what to do. I am in a tight situation here and trying to work as much as I can now,even on my days off to get money. We dropped the cell phone plan and went prepaid which will save $200 a month and cutting back on other things.We dropped Cable TV and my internet speed down saving another $100 there. I am so sore when I come home and pain meds are not working still. Sometimes I feel like it's just time to give up and let it all go to he ll. I can't win for losing anymore.

Big problem for you.. Basement leaking is very hard to sort out.. Hope you were to get out of this trouble..